Wednesday, March 9, 2016

Blessings

The last thing I want is for this blog to become a blog of posts about my cancer.  While my cancer dominates this season of my life, there is certainly more to my life than cancer ... I definitely don't spend my waking hours focused on cancer and have come to realize that this diagnosis has come with many blessings.  

Here are but a few:

1. The realization that more people care about me than I'd realized.  As an introvert, a homebody, with a good many acquaintances but few intimate, close friends, I didn't realize so many people cared as much as it's apparent that they do.

2. The restoration of a very close friendship that had ended abruptly almost 10 years ago.

3. The realization that every day is a gift and that it is entirely up to me to make the most of each one.  I realize that adding life to my years is every bit as important as adding years to my life. 

4. The opportunity to use this journey to bring glory to my Father.  People think that it might be easy to trust God when times are good ... I want to be an example of how it's possible to trust Him when times are difficult.

5. The realization that much of what consumed me prior to my diagnosis was unimportant ... now I find that my focus is on what is important: loving people, living life to its fullest both now and all of eternity.

6. The strengthening of my relationships with my husband and my daughter.  I can't imagine being on this journey without their love and support. 

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Now an update.  The Ts had a 3-day meet over the weekend at a Y about 45 minutes from here.  All 3 did very well.  Have I said how much I enjoy watching them compete?  Ha!

I had my last pre-surgery infusion yesterday.  No more weekly blood draws and no more chemo until mid-April. I also had a CT scan and should have had an appointment with the pre-surgical assessment folks ... someone forgot to make that appointment.  I will go back a week from this coming Thursday for my assessment.  

After we finished up at Siteman, DD headed up to campus for a meeting ... she's been admitted into the nursing program.  Woo hoo!  DH and I decided to make a date out of the rest of our day.  We did a little window shopping at the nearby mall and finished up our date with dinner at Maggiano's.  

The rest of my days since I posted last were fairly uneventful ... reading, working puzzles, a little stitching, and enjoying my Ts. 

I hope that whatever you have planned for today includes a little something that brings you joy ... have a great day!
Kathy

23 comments:

  1. So glad that you are continuing to post and even though you say you don't want the blog about cancer I am glad to get your updates that the fight continues and that you are doing well considering. Sometimes it takes a major health scare to know where we stand in life

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  2. Glad to hear you are doing well! I love your expression about adding life to your years...sure makes a person think! Take care!

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  3. Thanks for posting - I'm always interested in hearing about you and your family - congrats to DD! I'm so glad to hear your blessings - many we share. Enjoy today! ~Jeanne

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  4. So good to hear the positive that you are receiving through all of this - a wonderful inspiration to all of us.

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  5. It's always such a joy to hear from you, Kathy! I pray for you and Cathy every day. So glad that your handling things with such grace. You are thought about so often!

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  6. Good morning Kathy! This whole post has put such a smile on my face! You have such a good attitude and soooo glad everything has gone so well for you. I know first hand of course how something like this can change your way of thinking and feeling etc. God REALLY DOES work ALL things together for our good. How exciting for your daughter! Congrats to her. Live to the fullest each day you have been blessed with, and find His joy that is tucked into everything all around us, and we will KNOW His peace...HUGS!



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  7. Sage advice for EVERYONE to live by! You're in my thoughts! Congrats to your daughter! A new adventure!

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  8. Such wisdom in your list, Kathy. I especially love #4, but all of them should be taken to heart by everyone! Thank you for sharing this journey with us. We can all learn from your experience, and cheer you on, and pray for you. So much better than wondering and worrying.

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  9. Oh, it's such a joy to hear from you and your list of blessings touched my heart. So glad you are able to be out and about some and still praying for you and your surgery. Blessings my sweet friend!

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  10. You can find blessings in any situation, can't you?
    love that some relationship are renewed & others are strengthened.
    Yes - Giving God the glory in all things - exactly what He calls us to do.

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  11. Thank you for your list of blessings. They are very powerful and also thank you for all the family updates. ((Hugs)) Congratulations to DD!!!

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  12. What blessings you have. God has richly blessed you and will continue to do so I'm sure! You are such an optimist. Wish I was more like you.

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  13. I applaud your wisdom. Bad things happen to everyone. It is how we respond that determines the quality of our lives. You're choosing well! <3

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  14. Glad to hear from you a bit more regular, would love to see some photos of your sewing endeavours unless they are secret projects. I was looking at sailing boat quilts last night and came across a really clever storm at sea one, reminded me of when we started ours, Enjoy your loved ones as they enjoy your company also. Until next time :). Wendy

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  15. Thanks for sharing your wonderful thoughts today. Challenging situations can certainly change our perspective.

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  16. Kathy, So happy to find your blog post from yesterday today :) Thanks for keeping all us lovers of you "In the loop"! Thanks for the update on your T's too! Keep up the fight girl... I am sending you happy thoughts here daily!!! Kathi

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  17. I love this post with all its good reminders of what life is all about. Thank you for sharing these thoughts.

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  18. This is a wonderful post with so much truth. Thank you for keeping us updated, congratulations on your daughter being accepted to nursing school. Blessings

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  19. Thanks for the update. It eases my mind to hear from you, you and your family are in my prayers.

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  20. Thanks for the update Kathy. I love your blessings list and I think I needed to be reminded of a couple of those. Thank you. You are still in my prayers.

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  21. Reading this a few days late. I, too, have been surprised at the number of people who tell me they are praying for me. A lady whom I have never met, came up to me at my daughter's church yesterday to ask me about my health and to tell me she has been praying for me. Humbling.

    Hooray for restored relationships!

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  22. It's times like these in our lives that cause us to reflect on family, friends, and especially faith in our Loving Father. Though your body may be going through a challenge just now it sounds like the rest of you -- your outlook, your faith, your perspective -- are doing just great. Blessings to you, Kathy.
    --Nancy. (ndmessier @ aol.com, joyforgrace.blogspot.com)

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  23. Oh Kathy what a beautiful, heartfelt and inspiring post! :)

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